resolving differences

What can we do for resolving differences and avoid of dispute?In my opinion we can use some styles for resolving disagreement ,one style is, when people have discution may fear that loos of the control over a dispute they should try to control themselves and tolerate others idea calmly.Another style is forexample,when a student disagree with another student,he or she will handle the situation differently.It depending on his or her willingness to compromise and desire to keep a relationship friendly.Contribution to solving a problem is much more serious than rejection of themselves.we should respect others idea and try to persuade others.